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This is really a great story!! + L* i2 u# k6 e# [
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One day, when I was a freshman in high school,
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I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. 1 K* H% j7 b2 E, D
1 `, ?/ [0 U) f4 l% L3 f3 G" QHis name was Kyle.
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2 X) ]9 u2 v" T# g7 AIt looked like he was carrying all of his books.
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I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?
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He must really be a nerd." , b& B" M- n% O
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I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. 7 U4 s5 w t- j: F0 Z
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As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. 4 O: S$ A# i" U7 `% x
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+ O( K' ^0 g6 gThey ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.
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His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.
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/ c/ x: C9 u, y9 @" y* L7 PHe looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes
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1 L, g5 `- h2 t+ z2 F& L: CMy heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. ' h9 Z) Q9 u1 L- G% m9 r5 u+ n$ ^6 G
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5 [4 J. \- z! t" T. wAs I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. ; f1 W1 d5 I7 l1 n% ~- }
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: {9 w. b: x E1 P. X, @; H" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!" - A& z, m8 `, @: m! u
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There was a big smile on his face.
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It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
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# ?0 ^; h1 ~) `% K7 R, cI helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived 9 f8 u" Z( n9 `5 }
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As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.
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He said he had gone to private school before now.
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9 R$ C$ d4 h9 w% I$ bI would have never hung out with a private school kid before. * @8 U9 d1 `3 U1 t
1 A1 B5 K' h" ?6 o9 a. ]- nWe talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.
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I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends " Y" k4 j% l9 K2 X
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He said yes.
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We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
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Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.
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I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!
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6 w+ c7 A, H5 d0 w; uWhen we were seniors, we began to think about college.
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2 X& e/ C/ H/ t4 r* l& C" tKyle decided on Georgetown, and I & @1 L4 m1 I3 u
was going to Duke.
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I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. 1 K2 i: G- f/ Y" z3 U3 {
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He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship. & [, Q" J8 G( b- Y# x, M
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Kyle was valedictorian of our class. / o B3 T7 l7 p( I
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I teased him all the time about being a nerd. * q+ h, ]* q- H+ M" e9 I- t$ e! X
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He had to prepare a speech for graduation.
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Graduation day, I saw Kyle. 9 }) ~3 M8 H2 }& r
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He looked great. ' B- v+ y: X$ g
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He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
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" _1 W& ?& z% I( |. RBoy, sometimes I was jealous.
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# }) B% \5 B9 S0 z9 q8 F% I WToday was one of those days. & ~% a0 u2 M' M
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0 b+ a& G: K' `( v. K7 b: qI could see that he was nervous about his speech.
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So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" ; P8 m$ z: [! f
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"Thanks," he said.
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"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. - p8 ?4 m0 @ k' Y9 U6 x9 R+ p
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Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends... * m+ i% l- o+ ^3 H: Z f
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I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.
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1 h' w; c: x8 I; rI am going to tell you a story."
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# n+ v) Q1 q# K$ Z9 fI just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.
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8 E+ m* x5 t0 h$ |+ c7 LHe had planned to kill himself over the weekend. ' o' S% a L' N! E1 w% ^
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- N6 H2 k# t, t2 {9 C8 a1 Q, J2 VHe talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
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He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. 6 G1 U5 W' P# T. S* z- U
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"Thankfully, I was saved.
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My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."
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: E+ ^; y! z$ p/ C% p% EI heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.
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: \1 }8 f. G) r( }1 ^# w, a+ NI saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
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Not until that moment did I realize its depth.
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Never underestimate the power of your actions. % K4 c; u& z7 e3 S2 r# J: H
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With one small gesture you can change a person's life.
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God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way.
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