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原帖由 fayfay 于 2008-9-11 01:50 发表 
在所有中国人眼里，我从小到大都是异性的宠儿，同性的嫉妒，从皮肤到身材，从读书到工作。我20岁就以专业第一的成绩大学毕业，放弃了保研，工作一年后开了自己的公司，旺运两年辛苦挣了几百万人民币，身边追求者不计 ...
Hallo Fayfay,
ni 知道什么是爱.
I see your husband as a strange person, selfish husband, an irresponsible father. Is there really any reason for you to stay with him? For your son, your might say. A couple without love would possibly only bring a son a sad growing up background.
Ni xuyao 爱.
I feel really sorry for you.
However, I do not believe that he changed to a bad man in one day. He must have been him all the way along. Have you ever asked yourself what kind of person he was before you had child with him?
Maybe your personality also gives him an excuse to behave like this, if I may say. Have you ever tried to show him that you first love yourself and await love from your husband?
Well, if he is really as ignorant, selfish, narrow-minded and cold as you wrote, is there any hope for you to expect love from him?
I believe that you are used to be a charming girl and outstandingly good at work. Do you really know who you are, what you can do? Do you love yourself? The attitude that you handle this love-absent depressing family life at the moment shows that you do not love yourself. Maybe you do, but not enough. Just waiting for the day to pass by and forgeting all the pain can only cheat you for a short time, all these pain will only become stronger. You might one day without self-awareness relieve it to somewhere else. Where then? Will you spend your time with your son as a happy wife or a painless mom?
Self-sacrifice brings no happy end.
This is a really serious situation. You need find a way out. This way can only be found by you, yourself.
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