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小沈阳说过一句很经典的话，五个字的，我送给LZ吧（CBYLD）

捣蛋鬼

那请你告诉我，他们到底要求什么呢？怎么才能真正的满足他们？
叶蝴蝶 发表于 2009-4-9 00:48

我服了你…… 如果你不是来逗乐的，我只好说你一定脑子不清醒，才会问出这样的问题来。

楼主，你如果真滴想抓到一个有钱人好又看得顺眼的老公，你首先想过到哪里去认识他吗？网上，那些科学专业或者公司内部的论坛，会是他们出没的地方，可你如何找到那些地方？不谈网上结识，生活中吧，这样的人，喜欢泡吧的少，因为时间都用在学习和工作上，最可能碰到他们的地方是某些体育俱乐部或者兴趣爱好团体，你是那样地方的常客吗？

不说啦，我不知道你有哪些自信可以吸引到这样的优秀男人，如果只是指你的外貌和贤惠会伺候人，你可以参考楼上某位转贴的华尔街分析，或者你干脆回国去吧，国内很多有钱小开喜欢你这样的，可国内的有钱小开找老婆，也是会考虑女方家庭情况的，楼主你自己掂量。

话已说尽，你好自为之。

多小米

走自己的路，让灌水的人去说去吧。
他们不是你争求的对象，只是闲着无聊罢了。

祝早日找到好伴侣。

加油！
Sona 发表于 2009-4-8 22:23

看你自己征友贴写的挺真诚的，一直都没拍你，但你一而再再而三得老好人似的帮腔，实在忍不住要说你。这里，真诚征友的人大家只会送祝福，拍人的是极少数的。而lz,且不论那丫是不是来捣乱黑人还是无聊找拍的，就看看几条征友条件，就觉得纯属nc了。身材不能差，年纪不能大，赚钱得多，还得愿意养着她。还没谈上恋爱呢，先要对方养着她，承担她的经济压力。男人有钱，愿意养着自己心爱的女人是一回事情，主动要求对方养又是另一回事情。女人不是生来要人养的，咱有手有脚，到国外来念书，那基本还有点脑子，咋不明白自食其力这四个字。lz的征友条件里铜臭味十足，不提人品性格，反复提及的只是要养着她。赤裸裸的堂而皇之的求包养贴，你觉得lz没做错什么，不过我看来还不如求ons的呢。抱歉哈，实在祝福不了。
我之前说了，我真认识这样的男人，比lz的要求绝对有过之而无不及。不过这样的男人身边从不缺漂亮女人。我是不知道lz长得多国色天香，李嘉欣够漂亮了吧，人也寻寻觅觅了20年才找到愿意娶她养他的男人。路漫漫其修远兮，lz可以慢慢探索。

多小米

我服了你…… 如果你不是来逗乐的，我只好说你一定脑子不清醒，才会问出这样的问题来。

楼主，你如果真滴想抓到一个有钱人好又看得顺眼的老公，你首先想过到哪里去认识他吗？网上，那些科学专业或者公司内部的 ...
捣蛋鬼 发表于 2009-4-9 06:51

关于那华尔街，还有另一个回复，我觉得更经典。
I also came across your posting with great interest. I am a 28 year old Wall Street trader who qualifies as an eligible suitor under your $500k/yr rule. In fact, I make over a million and can usher a woman into a comfortable, true middle class lifestyle (not like those 500k lower-middle class chumps who have to make do with the junior two-bedroom).

I am sympathetic to your goal in finding a rich man to marry. The milk needs to be sold by the expiration date. But since this is premium milk, why would you settle for less than premium prices? I would like to address some of the questions that were previously missed by the other gentleman and provide constructive advice on where to find your match.

I also do believe in the efficient market theory, and am surprised that $500k hasn't found you yet. There are plenty of rich lawyers, investment bankers and hedgies to go around in this city. What gives? I think the problem might be that you have not been sufficiently focused in your search efforts.

The culprit, I believe, may be that you are also looking for qualities aside from money - such as looks, personality, and a sense of humor. However, men who have those qualities learn at an early age that they do not need money to attract quality women. As the saying goes, if you can get the milk for free, why pay up for the cow?

What you need to look for is someone who is long money, and short the other aspects. They are not easy to spot, since you are biologically wired to overlook and ignore them. However, the next time that you are at an expensive black tie event, and you are introduced to the short, bald, overweight man who fidgets nervously whilst making conversation with you, pay special attention to him.

Here's an inspirational story for you. An acquaintance of mine who was also an classy and articulate woman as yourself was able to land that guy - who also happens to be one of the top ten guys at Google. This is the type of stuff that gold-digging moms read to their gold-digging daughters at bedtime. Perhaps you need to make a location change to Silicon Valley - miracles like these happen almost everyday in a land where you can randomly throw a rock and hit a rich nerd squarely in his Kim-jong Il glasses.

And as far as his deficiencies go, they turned out to be not so bad. With hundreds of millions in the bank, she's been able to clean him up and give him a little sophistication. Think of it as a fixer-upper project with a massive budget (and yourself as a visionary real estate developer!). Although, I must warn you, it is a fine line you are flirting with - you must not overdo it lest he begins to attract younger women who are hotter than yourself. The trick is, you need build him up enough to be presentable, while simultaneously manipulate him into believing you are the best that he will ever do! That, botox and having kids will be your insurance against your depreciation (or as I prefer to use the term, milk going sour).

I wish the best of luck on your sales project. As for me, I am also available for a short-term lease. However, for marriage I wouldn't consider a woman unless she can bring beauty, brains and self-motivation to the table. I do not want to dilute my gene pool and end up raising a bunch of Paris Hiltons.

xumeng

ls这位同学不也是期望老公送车吗？

多小米

ls这位同学不也是期望老公送车吗？
xumeng 发表于 2009-4-9 07:09

蒙蒙你找拍啊。。我说要买车，是你给我定义成要人送车好不好！！
自己去翻帖子去

xumeng

Sona

看你自己征友贴写的挺真诚的，一直都没拍你，但你一而再再而三得老好人似的帮腔，实在忍不住要说你。这里，真诚征友的人大家只会送祝福，拍人的是极少数的。而lz,且不论那丫是不是来捣乱黑人还是无聊找拍的，就看 ...
多小米 发表于 2009-4-9 07:04

我不知道该怎么回答你的前两个半句话。不知道是表示感激，还是尴尬。应该是感激居多吧：因为我在的话里，感觉到了你对我个人的善意。谢谢你！


和查经班的一些牧师接触后，我唯一赞同他们的话是：人有选择的自由。感情的选择多种多样。如身高，相貌，人品，内涵，能力，家庭条件，多金等等。看着这几条选择，我实在无法区分除了人品和内涵外其他的几条有多大的差异。能力是潜力股是未来的“多金”，家庭条件和多金有什么本质的区别？ 喜好外貌和喜好多金难道不是一样的虚荣吗？

既然一样，为什么能容忍女孩购买潜力股，就不能容忍她直接套现呢？为什么能容忍外貌协会，就不能容忍找millionaire？能容忍在身高上做限制，就不能容忍在收入上做限制？

我对此的唯一理解是：我们依据我们自己的喜好做判断。我们喜欢的就是同一阵营，欣赏赞美；我们反对的就是洪水猛兽，群起攻之。或许我的这种理解是肤浅的，是片面的. 但是除此之外，我没有找到其他的解释。

我不是什么老好人，以谋求自己的利益抑或蒙获这个美女的垂青。我属于楼主所排斥的“穷学生”一族。我喜欢的也是那种秀外慧中，或者知性内敛，或者阳光可爱聪明的女孩。所以只是想说点自己想说的话。

找不到有感觉的女孩，就过来和大家插科打诨。意见不一致，有得罪的地方还希望多多谅解。

葱白小小

补充一下，如果结婚，女的不工作，男的要求每月税后3500欧，三级税卡的前提下，税前的年薪6万欧也应该够了，这样lz的择偶范围可以大点，有些工作经验的高级工程师也可以纳入范围。
只是，我认识的年薪超过6万的，对lz这样的肯定是没兴趣的

多小米

我不知道该怎么回答你的前两个半句话。不知道是表示感激，还是尴尬。应该是感激居多吧：因为我在的话里，感觉到了你对我个人的善意。谢谢你！


和查经班的一些牧师接触后，我唯一赞同他们的话是：人有选择的自 ...
Sona 发表于 2009-4-9 07:49

的确，每个人都有选择的自由，所以我回帖初始，是来回复你的回帖。但行文中没忍住，实际上还是拍了lz。你说的没错，每个人都有自己的选择，拜金求包养的人生活中比比皆是，lz只是其中一部分而已。只是她开了贴，从标题到回帖，无一不强调包养，那便不值得祝福。因为这种祝福，在我看来，是在助长一种不良风气。当然，你也可以认为，这种“不良”也是因个人喜好和价值观而定的，那我无话可说，就当我无聊。